Often I get this question: "What if you get married after waiting all this time only to find that your husband is a lousy lay?" Huh? How will I know the difference? I have no one to compare him to. The only reason you are able to tell if someone is a lousy lay is because you have someone to compare them to. Don't you see the wisdom of God in asking us to wait? My husband will never have to worry about being compared with any other man because he will be the only man. He never has to wonder if he is doing it better than the last guy.
Then there are those who insist that experience is necessary in order to have great sex in marriage. I beg to differ! This thing is not copy and paste! Just because Mary liked it a certain way does not mean I will. Come on People!! Let this be an adventure into uncharted waters. When the time comes, my hubby and I will be learning each other. He will be discovering what I like and I will be discovering what he likes. Its an adventure. A discovery of new sensations and feel good nerves. An explosion of pleasure. I want to savor that in marriage with my husband.
I have always said that on my part, it is not necessary for my husband to be a virgin. If he is, which would be the ideal situation, then that would be awesome! However, I know that God forgives sin and if the man he brings my way has repented and is forgiven, who I'm I to hold it against him? When I say that, I usually get this comment from Christians "You will have shortchanged yourself!" In their minds, if I have waited then I had better get someone who is waiting too. I don't think so. I think where God is concerned, mercy triumphs over judgment. I think that God in his wisdom pairs us up with the people we need in this life to fulfill his purposes. At least if your life is submitted to him. In that case, if he wishes to extend grace to a wonderful man, a sinner saved by grace, by giving him a virgin wife regardless of his past, so be it! I'm game!
The one thing you have to understand about me is that I am doing what God tells me to do. I am his. My life is submitted to him. I want what he wants and nothing more. He is an awesome God!!!
No comments:
Post a Comment